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[guardian]

Let's highlight the word OTHER.

We don't talk about you (guardian) or your experience now, we talk about OTHER candidates knowledge/experience and that's where i try to get answer. Hakah wrote that you should have better knowledge/experience than OTHER candidates... Now the question again, how Hakah can know this? I'm almost 100% sure that Hakah doesn't know me and so on anything of my knowledge/experience. I can talk only from my part but my name was still mentioned at candidate list. But let's do not forget that there's also other candidate names mentioned. Names like Advanced_skilled and Askanag and earlier also sterchin and Geo before last two wrote that they don't want to join the party. 

So.... the point at this just was that let's talk about facts and let's talk about things only which we can know for sure!


Anyway.... Congratulations to new mods! 

IMO mate what you should consider is make a list of things that bug you and then itemize into two sections 

1. what you can control (for example)
You can actively not reach out to people whom you know are never going to reciprocate.

and 

2. what you can't control (for example)
You cannot force yourself to be someone’s priority, even if they are yours. 

these things you have no control over are the things you are literally wasting your life energy on

now in your section 1. list, you focus any misspent life energy into the things that you have power to control in your life 

thanks for the congrats !!